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The Final Family Event Of The Year

I wrote my last post on a Saturday morning when laziness overcame motivation. The weather forecast was for a band of very heavy rain and thunderstorms overnight Friday, bad enough to issue an Orange weather warning from 1-7am.

I figured there would be lots of surface water and crap on the roads Saturday morning so opted out of the Club cycle and enjoyed a lie-in instead.

Of course Saturday morning wasn’t as bad as expected but having made the decision I was unable to get motivated to get out solo.

Saturday wasn’t a waste though as we became a 4 car household once again!

With the exam and college application marathon finally over Conor now needs to focus on getting his driving license. He had lessons last year and was insured on Catriona’s car, but it was far too big and cumbersome for him as a learner and with the focus on his Leaving Certificate, driving took a back seat 🙊 The Polo is a perfect learner car and once he has his license will give him a level of independence that will hopefully compensate for living at home while at college.

I was back in the hills on Sunday, this time with the Hiking Club. The destination was Silver Hill in The Bluestack Mountains. At 600m it’s just about qualifies as a Vandeleur-Lynam summit and, by default, is also an Arderin. It is the joint smallest V-L sharing the honour with Castle Hill in Kerry.

I was up here in December last year on Cooper’s first venture into the hills. Despite being less than a year ago I couldn’t remember any of the walk after the reservoir. Also despite having a distinctive summit cairn and great views I couldn’t remember the top either! I guess I was more stressed having Cooper with me that day than I realised. Of course, having a leader that knows and sets the route makes for a very relaxing day.

I was surprised at the low turnout. It was a great day but only 5 plus the leader made it.

Close to the parking area I got a low pressure warning on my rear passenger tyre. Once parked up it was clear I had a flat! I decided to forget about it until after the walk. Worst case if I couldn’t get it sorted then Catriona could come pick me up and I could organise an emergency service to sort it on Monday.

Arriving back at the car after the walk I used the electronic pump and jar of sealant to get the tyre inflated (no spare wheel in this car!). Coming into Donegal Town it felt soft again and another inflation got me to a couple of km outside of Ballybofey. On the third inflation I heard a hiss of escaping air and it was clear that the tyre had failed. The wheel was safe so long as I avoided any potholes and figuring the tyre was going to be replaced anyway, I pushed on into Ballybofey and left it in the yard of the tyre centre to be sorted on Monday.

I’d booked Monday as a day off a few weeks ago. I had some annual leave to use up and it was also Owen’s 21st birthday 🥳 Catriona was at work so we held all the presents, cake, etc until Monday evening but the two boys and myself went to Jacksons Hotel for lunch once the car was sorted and retrieved. It’s rare for just the three of us to be together like this and we had a lovely afternoon before celebrating properly in the evening with Catriona.

I was back at work on Tuesday and that’s Club Spin evening. However, I’ve decided I’m not mentally ready for night riding yet so my plan is to cycle solo earlier on a Tuesday and/or Thursday and cycle with the Club at the weekend. If I can get home and out the door by around 5:30pm then I should be able to get a decent 30-40km in before dark for a few more weeks.

My plan didn’t work out great for the first week! I ended up having a longer day than expected on Tuesday and in a pattern that was to last all week, didn’t get home until well after 6pm. I did however, have enough momentum to still get out Tuesday evening for a short spin. Unfortunately, Thursday was very windy and I was knackered after a long day so ended up not doing anything!

I had vague plans to cycle on Saturday but the chance to grab a bit of a lie-in won me over. We also had a celebration get together for Owen’s 21st on Saturday evening so I figured I’d be best to be around the house to help clean and tidy rather than leaving everything to Catriona. I also had plans to go hillwalking on Sunday morning so wanted to keep fresh legs.

With a later than planned finish to the night it turned out that my hillwalking plans were a bit optimistic! Sleepy heads kept us in bed until well after 9am but I didn’t regret it as the chance to get up reasonably refreshed was worth it and will hopefully give me a better run at the week ahead.

It’s a cracker day here today so in an effort not to waste the day completely I did get out for a solo spin on the bike. I decided to keep it reasonably sensible with a planned 33km ride that I pushed out to 37km. I didn’t expect or appreciate the very cool headwind on the way out but when I turned for home it was a very enjoyable tailwind with lovely warm sunshine. Hopefully not the last of this weather for the year.

The news last weekend was full of Trump’s visit to Ireland. The venue for the Irish Open Golf was his hotel at Doonbeg so there was no keeping him away. He did the usual official visits but also made an unexpected commentary on the possibility of a United Ireland. The memes were wild but this was my favourite (may not translate well out of Ireland).

The SDLP were the quickest off the mark with this theme:

Trump is also throwing his toys out of the pram over the invitation by the EU to Canada to become the first associate member. This article made me smile this morning:

Done and Dusted…

It seems like I’ve been almost 50 for ever. It’s one of those milestones that seems to carry a lot of significance and one I haven’t really been looking forward to. This will give some of you a giggle but 50 just seems old (or at least it used to!).

The protracted nature of turning 50 has been exaggerated by going to Paris as a present for both of us back in April and then getting a surprise birthday cake and balloons at a family get together at the beginning of June.

Last Friday saw the day finally dawn. Like most things we build up in our head it was just another day after all. No earth shattering revelations and no sudden aging process occurred. It appears that I’m still me, just one day older.

I’d booked the weekend off work and while we had “plans” only one was organised. We went out for a meal on Saturday night (Friday wasn’t available) to The Red Door near Buncrana. This is a much more upmarket location than what we’re normally used to and the meal was pretty damn good as expected.

Other plans were discussed, rescheduled and then abandoned as the weather teased us before finally disappointing us but all in all I had a great weekend that was completely family orientated, as it should be 🙂

My wife does like pointing out to me that I don’t seem to realise what age I am and still think I’m 25 but I guess now it’s time to enjoy being fifty-something and discovering what this actually means. Then I can spend a few years stressing about turning 60….which really does feel old 🤣

50 for 50

It was my birthday last month and at 48 I am now slap bang in the middle age zone and also deep into mid-life crisis territory. One wrong step and I’ll be hunting for a girl half my age and driving fast cars that I can’t afford!

about as far as the budget will stretch!

This is the first birthday that I’ve really felt my age. I was happy at every milestone in my life but for some reason 50 feels much more ominous. Some of you who come here regularly will scoff but it feels old and I don’t like feeling old.

This topic came up on a recent trip to the barbers. She is almost exactly 10 years younger than me and while she isn’t dreading 40 she has a plan to mark it with 40 things for her 40th birthday. The conversation reminded me of personal challenges set by two friends (Eileen and Yvonne) to mark significant birthdays of their own. Inspired by these 3 ladies I have come up with my own list.

Some of these are things I’ve been thinking of for a while and some are things I’m planning to do over the next few years anyway. There are no rules and no particular order. I’ll do some together and sometimes one thing might count for more than one item on the list. I’m allowing myself until the end of 2023 so have just over 2 years but, if I don’t get them all done then no worries. The goal here is to have fun!

  • Give up social media for 1 month
  • Climb Mt Everest (walking elevation)
  • Sleep on a mountain top with no tent
  • Camp on a beach
  • Raise €5,000 for charity
  • Walk a marathon
  • Cycle the Ireland Way
  • Climb the Ulster County Tops
  • Climb the Ireland 4 Peaks
  • Midnight Skinny Dip
  • Read 5 Classic Novels
  • Gift 5 coffees to strangers
  • Carve an item from wood
  • Give flowers to 5 strangers
  • Drive the Wild Atlantic Way
  • Visit the 32 counties of Ireland
  • Take a photo of 5 strangers and get their stories
  • Run a 10K
  • Stay silent for 24hrs
  • Abseil off a cliff or tall building
  • Complete a multi day bikepacking trip
  • Complete a multi day backpacking trip
  • Take 5 photos that are worth framing
  • Learn to swim
  • Cycle from dusk to dawn
  • Kiss the Blarney Stone
  • Firewalk
  • Have acupuncture
  • Take 5 yoga lessons
  • Take 5 dance lessons
  • Volunteer for a day
  • Plant 5 trees
  • Grow a meal
  • Catch and cook a fish
  • Bake a cake
  • Visit Tory Island
  • Spend a night on Aranmore Island
  • Re-visit the Aran Islands
  • Visit Glasnevin cemetery
  • Visit the War Memorial Gardens
  • Make a pen pal
  • Send a message in a bottle
  • Make a time capsule
  • Donate blood
  • Make a memory box
  • Climb the closest 50 hills to home on MountainViews.ie
  • Go pony trekking
  • Go for a wild swim
  • Do a pier jump
  • Grow a tree from seed

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july – a month of significant days

July is a busy month for our family and it starts straight away with my Mum’s birthday on July 1st. Two weeks later on the 14th it’s the turn of Dad and myself. It’s a joint birthday but this year it’s all about Dad as he turned 70. We had a family get-together at a restaurant in Letterkenny and then back to Mum and Dad’s for a few hours.

Just before this my blog passed it’s second blogiversary. I’m now up to 236 followers and have a good core group of regular readers, many of whom like and comment on a regular basis. This week I also passed a pretty big milestone for a blog that I don’t promote beyond my personal Facebook page.

However, by far and away the most important date this year is today. 20 years ago I married my soulmate. As Catriona eloquently said on Facebook this morning “20 years of you, me and us” We’re a perfect example of a couple that are better people together than we ever would have been apart ❤️

we haven’t changed a bit!

We arranged to have our days off together today. Yesterday evening we went for a lovely meal in The Hidden Pearl, Sion Mills. Today we went back to Portstewart and had lunch in the Anchor Bar where we first met.

We had a lovely day driving and walking around a town that is full of memories for me, having lived there for a few years but with a very special memory that we both celebrated today.

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carpe diem

It’s my birthday today and birthdays are like New Year, a time for reflection, contemplating life goals, making plans, blah, blah, blah.

If I’ve learned nothing else since my last birthday it’s that while plans and reflection have their place it’s important to realise that life is to be lived in the here and now and enjoy the moments that we have.